Dear Dr. Wendy,

Can you help me let go of this guy who isn’t right for me? I’m readyfor a real relationship and I know he’s not the one.
Thanks,
Jan in Oakland
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Dear Jan,
Yes, I can definitely help you let go of someone who isn’t right for you and attract the kind of partner you really want. Please join me for this year’s Contra Costa Singles Convention on Friday, April 20th at 7:30pm. I will be the Keynote Speaker. My talk is titled “Just Say No! - The real secret to finding love!” You will be inspired to let go of what’s not working and you’ll learn how to attract the love you desire. Please join us for an entertaining, inspiring, interactive talk followed by a dance party! LOCATION: Marriott Hotel, 2355 N Main St, Walnut Creek CA 94596.

Also, you may want to work with me individually or join my next Conscious Dating, Relationship Success for Singles Course. For anyone who is single and longing for a loving relationship that lasts, this group is your insurance policy to protect you from repeating dangerous dating patterns and experiencing relationship disappointments.

My telecourse is scheduled for Wednesdays 7-8:30pm starting Wednesday May 2nd. We will not meet on May 16th. We may be able to make some modifications to this schedule, so please contact me immediately if you may be interested in joining us.

Space is VERY limited, so please contact me right away at DrWendy@MyTrueLovePath.com or (415) 342-1300 if you might be interested.

This is a small group and you will get a lot of individual attention regarding your specific concerns.

Here are some of the Guaranteed Results:

· Clarify your values, vision and essential relationship requirements.

· Uncover and release blocks and patterns that have stopped you.

· Let go of habits, things and people that don’t support and inspire you.

· Learn to believe in yourself and your vision for a loving partnership.

· Develop an effective plan for creating a life you love with the love of your life!

· Get the support you need to make your dreams come true!

This course includes:

* 18 hours of interactive course time
* Individual support and guidance
* Comprehensive 142 page workbook
* Additional transformational material
* Recordings available
* Reduced from $795 to $595 for 12 week telecourse

See www.MyTrueLovePath.com for testimonials and more

I look forward to seeing you soon!

Warmly,
Dr. Wendy

Dear Dr. Wendy,
I saw you speak at the Marin Singles Convention in Tiburon and wanted to get information about your book with Deepak Chopra and your workshops. What do you have coming up soon?

John in SF

Dear John,

I have books available and I have both a teleclass and in-person workshop coming up soon. You and your friends are welcome to attend. The book, teleclass and workshop will all be very useful for anyone who is single or having relationship challenges.

New Free Teleclass
Valentine’s Special:
7 Steps to Lasting Love
Thursday, February 9
5-6 PM Pacific Time
Call (805) 399-1200
Access Code: 635881
For those who are single or facing relationship challenges, join us for this helpful teleclass, or sign up to get a free recording. Please send an email to DrWendy@MyTrueLovePath.com with Dr. Wendy teleclass in the subject line if you’d like more information.

For those who’d like to learn more in person, join us for my Roadmap to Relationship Success Workshop and Book Signing for a fun, interactive and educational evening.

When? Wednesday, February 15th 7-9 PM
Where? Novato Oaks Inn
215 Alameda del Prado
Novato, CA 94949

Register now to save $5 on admission www.MyTrueLovePath.com/calendar.html
I’ll be sharing my Roadmap to Relationship Success from my new book with Deepak Chopra and will provide tons of useful information for anyone who is single or in a relationship that’s not working.Register now and the cost is only $20 - includes handouts, refreshments and information about my upcoming course. To register see www.MyTrueLovePath.com/calendar.html (Admission is $25 at the door). You can get your own signed copy of my new book, Roadmap to Success at the event. You can also order a signed copy of this book with co-authors Deepak Chopra and Ken Blanchard now at www.MyTrueLovePath.com.

Meet Singles and Explore Relationship Issues
Learn the 7 steps to Relationship Success from Dr. Wendy’s new book with Deepak Chopra
Get your own signed copy of the new book, Roadmap to Success
Discover Solutions to Your Past Relationship Patterns
Learn How to Avoid 10 Dangerous Dating Traps
Learn the 10 Principles of Conscious Dating
Get a preview of the upcoming Relationship Success for Singles Course, guaranteed to help you create a life you love, with love in your life!

This evening workshop is an introduction to the 12 week in-person Conscious Dating: Relationship Success for Singles course that will be meeting in Novato, starting February 22nd.

In this course you are Guaranteed to:Clarify your values, vision and essential relationship requirements.
Uncover and release blocks and patterns that have stopped you.
Develop a clear plan for creating the life and relationship you desire.
Acquire a support team to assist you in finding the love of your life!

In my courses and work with individual clients, I’ve helped hundreds of people transform their lives and create loving relationships that last. I only lead these courses a couple times a year and am available to work with individuals and couples throughout the year. For more details and testimonials see www.MyTrueLovePath.com.
I have decided to continue my book special for readers. I am offering a free signed copy of my new book with Deepak Chopra and Ken Blanchard, Roadmap to Success, to all those who purchase two books. Or you can buy one book and get a second book at 50% off, only $10! This new book features timeless and timely advice from experts on life, love, health and business.

Roadmap to Success: America’s Top Intellectual Minds Map Out Successful Life Strategies, provides gems of wisdom that will guide you toward success in all areas of your life. This is a great gift for anyone interested in personal growth and success in relationships with others, success as an entrepreneur or business person, and success as a human being. See www.MyTrueLovePath.com for more information and a book excerpt.

This January and February, I am offering complimentary Love Path Consultations to prospective clients who are ready to shift their lives. I am also happy to hear from former clients or workshop participants who are ready for a tune-up. Only 5 spots are available through February 29th. This is an opportunity for you to:

· create a crystal-clear vision for the kind of relationship you’d like to have;

· uncover hidden challenges that may be sabotaging your relationship success; and

· feel renewed, re-energized and inspired to create a life you love, with the love you desire.

As a psychologist, author and coach, I provide personalized coaching for individuals and couples by telephone anywhere in the world, and in person in the San Francisco Bay Area. I also lead groups both on the telephone nationwide, and in person in the San Francisco Bay Area.

My goal is to help people create successful, joyful and loving relationships with themselves and with each other. I can be reached at www.MyTrueLovePath.com, DrWendy@MyTrueLovePath.com or 415-342-1300.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Much love and joy,
Dr. Wendy

Dear Dr. Wendy,
After a summer of dud dates, I’m ready to learn how to make better choices. Any tips? Thanks! Sue in Greenbrae
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Dear Sue,

Thanks for writing. Now that my son is 8 1/2 months old, I am more available to work with clients and lead workshops and courses. My new book with Deepak Chopra, Roadmap to Success is out, and in it I outline my Roadmap to Relationship Success. I suggest you order a signed copy from my website www.MyTrueLovePath.com

Please RSVP right away if you’d like to join us (and save $5 off $25 admission). www.MyTrueLovePath/claendar.com
I look forward to seeing you there!

Register here (just $20 for the entire evening - includes refreshments and handouts)
Admission is $25 at the door

(415) 342-1300
DrWendy@MyTrueLovePath.com
www.MyTrueLovePath.com
www.InJoyLife.com

Dear Dr. Wendy,

We heard you had a baby and that you had a book coming out with Deepak Chopra. Are you still working with singles? Where can we get more information?

Lisa and Janine in Oakland

Hi Lisa and Janine,

Thanks for writing. I apologize for disappearing. Yes, my baby boy is now 5 months old and he’s been keeping me pretty busy. His name is Matthew and we are absolutely crazy about him - see some photos in my recent newsletters.

And yes, my book with Deepak Chopra and Ken Blanchard will be available in July. The book is called Roadmap to Success and my chapter is Roadmap to Relationship Success See the excerpt in my newsletter. A limited number of signed copies will be available so contact me if you’d like to reserve yours.

Yes, I am still working with singles and couples. I have 4 spots available this month. I help people transform their lives and create loving relationships. See my website www.MyTrueLovePath.com for more information and to take the True Love Test for yourself.

I look forward to hearing from you and helping you create a life you love with all the love you want in your life!

Much love,
Dr. Wendy

Wendy Lyon, Phd Psychology
Master Certifed Relationship/Life Coach
Author, Speaker and Workshop Facilitator

www.MyTrueLovePath.com
DrWendy@MyTrueLovePath.com
(415) 342-1300

Dear Dr. Wendy,

Do you still lead singles groups in person? I prefer to meet and get to know the people in a group I attend. I seem to learn better in person than over the telephone. I’m still single and can’t really afford to work with you on my own so I’m hoping you still have singles groups like you used to.

Shelley in Corte Madera
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Dear Shelley,

Your timing is perfect. I’m starting a new singles group next week. The TrueLove Path Relationship Success for Singles course will meet in person in South Novato for 12 weeks (with breaks for holidays as needed). If you are single and longing for a loving relationship that lasts, this group is your insurance policy to protect you from repeating dangerous dating patterns and experiencing relationship disappointments.

Our first meeting is Wednesday, October 27th 7:00-9:00pm. Space is VERY limited, so please contact me right away at DrWendy@MyTrueLovePath.com or (415) 342-1300 if you might be interested. If you sign up with a friend, you’ll each save $50.

(If you can’t make the first meeting, you may still be able to join the group if you RSVP in advance. For readers who live in another geographical area, call me to schedule a complimentary consultation and we may choose to work together on the telephone, either one-on-one or in a group telecourse)

This is a small group and you will get a lot of individual attention regarding your specific concerns.

Here are some of the Guaranteed Results:

· Clarify your values, vision and essential relationship requirements.
· Uncover and release blocks and patterns that have stopped you.
· Let go of habits, things and people that don’t support and inspire you.
· Learn to believe in yourself and your vision for a loving partnership.
· Develop an effective plan for creating a life you love with the love of your life!
· Get the support you need to make your dreams come true!

This course includes:

* 24 hours of interactive course time
* Individual support and guidance
* Comprehensive 142 page workbook
* Additional transformational material
* Makeup sessions available
* Earlybird Special: Huge $200 price reduction from $795 to $595
(RSVP with $100 deposit by October 21, 2010).
* Sign up with a friend for another $50 off each: $545 each for entire program
* Refreshments provided at each meeting

*This course is only offered once or twice a year and it is much less expensive than individual coaching. (Individual and couples coaching are also available)

Hundreds of singles have transformed their lives and created loving relationships after taking this course with me. Here are a few comments from past participants:

“Wendy really helped me to identify my relationship needs and wants, and the blocks I had to finding the right partner… I got clearer on my relationship requirements, uncovered limiting beliefs, and made a plan for meeting my partner. I recently married an emotionally available man and we share something I never had before - real mature love. This course is an excellent way to get clearer on the type of relationship you want and to create a plan to achieve it.” Christine P., Pleasanton, CA

“Wendy’s Relationship Success for Singles class was very useful in my process of finding the love of my life. We have been very happily married over 2 years now, and it just keeps getting better! We are overjoyed to have found each other. The course certainly made a major contribution to my readiness and clarity, and greatly increased the efficiency of my dating. I’m glad to have taken the class, and made some friends among the other attendees, in addition to the ways that it forwarded my search. I tell my single friends who ask (and many do, after seeing how good a relationship we have) about it.” Donn D., Novato, CA

“By the time I began working with Wendy, I had been divorced for 8 years and had been in 2 dysfunctional and unfulfilling relationships. I had a vague idea of what I desired in a healthy, intimate relationship, but none of the real specifics of what that felt or looked like. By the time I completed Wendy’s class, I had a much more detailed and joyful idea about how I was going to attract the relationship of my dreams. Specifically, I learned more about my personal traits and desires, i.e. who I am, what worked and did not work in past relationships, and what my needs and desires are for a real life partnership. Through vision boards, readings, discussions, writing exercises and more, Wendy skillfully and joyfully guided our group closer to realizing true love. I met the man of my dreams last year and he fits my visions like a glove! I shared my vision statement out loud with him soon after we met and we were in awe (and continue to be) at how accurately he fits my dream and needs. This stuff really works! Thank You, Wendy.” Mary C., Mill Valley, CA

For more testimonials and information see www.MyTrueLovePath.com and contact me at DrWendy@MyTrueLovePath.com or (415) 342-1300. I look forward to helping you create a life you love, with the love of your life!

Much love and joy to you,
Dr. Wendy

Wendy Lyon, PhD Psychology
Master Certified Relationship and Life Coach
Workshop, Course and Retreat Facilitator

(415) 342-1300
DrWendy@MyTrueLovePath.com
www.MyTrueLovePath.com
www.InJoyLife.com

Dear Dr. Wendy,

I am recently divorced and about to celebrate my 60th birthday. I’m ready for some guidance on how to proceed with the next phase of my life, and how to have a nurturing and long lasting relationship with a man who is a good fit for me. Do you have any advice for me?

Marianne in San Anselmo
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Dear Marianne,

Congratulations on reaching this milestone in your life! Now is the perfect time to let go of your past, and choose what you would like to create in this next phase of your life. I’m glad you had the courage to publicly announce that you are ready to have a nurturing and long lasting relationship with a man who is a good fit for you. Keep your focus on this vision, and allow yourself to feel how good it feels to be living your dream.

I have two upcoming events that will definitely be of interest to you:
1) Marin Families in Transition Fair this Saturday and
2) Free Teleclass: Secrets to Success for Singles Thursday, Sept. 23.
See details below:

Please join me…..
SATURDAY, SEPT.18, 2010
10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.
LOCATION: The Marin YMCA, 1500 Los Gamos Drive, San Rafael
MARIN FAMILIES IN TRANSITION FAIR
Sponsored by the Marin YMCA / The Seniors Lifestyle Exchange Group

•Over 30 local business exhibits (drop by and check out my True Love booth and presentations)
•Entertainment
•Expert Speakers including Dr. Wendy who will help us bring more compassion into our relationships
•Food Booths to benefit local Marin youth organizations
•Bring your kids, parents and grandparents for a day of fun and learning!
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FREE TELECLASS: Secrets to Success for Singles!
Thursday, September 23rd

Do you wonder why you are still single or in a relationship that isn’t working for you?
Do you want to be in a fabulous relationship with someone who is a great match for you?

In my next teleclass, I’ll share simple and profound secrets to success for singles, and those in unhappy relationships. These secrets will immediately help you love yourself and your life now, and move forward toward creating the loving relationships that you desire.

The teleclass meets Thursday, September 23rd at 5:30pm-6:45pm Pacific time and will be recorded. Please contact me right away at DrWendy@MyTrueLovePath.com if you would like to join us and/or receive the recording.

I will be leading one more 12 week True Love Path Relationship Success for Singles Course this year. Please contact me immediately if you might be interested or would like early bird options.

The Relationship Success for Singles course will meet via interactive teleconference for 12 weeks. This is a small group and you will get a lot of individual attention regarding your specific concerns. Here are some of the Guaranteed Results:

• Clarify your values, vision and essential relationship requirements.
• Uncover and release blocks and patterns that have stopped you.
• Let go of habits, things and people that don’t support and inspire you.
• Learn to believe in yourself and your vision for a loving partnership.
• Develop an effective plan for creating a life you love with the love of your life!
• Get the support you need to make your dreams come true!

This course includes:
* 18 hours of interactive course time
* Individual coaching session
* Comprehensive 142 page workbook
* E-mail feedback as needed
* All sessions recorded and available

Also, in the month of September I am offering complimentary Love Path consultations to four more people.
During this special 1-on-1 coaching session we’ll work together to…

=> Create a crystal clear vision for the kind of partner that you’d like to attract
and the kind of relationship that you’d like to have.

=> We’ll uncover hidden challenges that may be sabotaging your success with
dating and relationships.

=> You’ll leave the session renewed, reenergized and inspired to find and
keep a great match once and for all!

To claim your special “Love Path Consultation” today, simply reply to DrWendy@MyTrueLovePath and answer these questions:

1. How long have you been single?
2. On a scale of zero to 10 how important is it for you to be in a romantic relationship?
3. What do you see as your biggest relationship challenges?
4. What would you most like help with when it comes to dating?

Be sure to include your name, phone number and email address so someone can get back to you within the next 48 hours to schedule your one-on-one “Love Path Consultation.” See www.MyTrueLovePath.com for more information

I look forward to helping you create a life you love with all the love you want in your life!

Much love,
Dr. Wendy

Wendy Lyon, PhD Psychology
Master Certified Relationship and Life Coach
Workshop, Course and Retreat Facilitator

(415) 342-1300
DrWendy@InJoyLife.com
www.MyTrueLovePath.com
www.InJoyLife.com

Dear Dr. Wendy,

I’ve been divorced for 8 years and I thought I would have found someone new by now! I’m feeling discouraged about my life, my body, my job and my prospects for love. Can you help?

Thanks!
Sara in San Rafael
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Dear Sara,

I understand how discouraging it can feel to be alone, wishing you had a wonderful partner and feeling like your life isn’t working for you. I also know how hard it can be to be to wish that your body and job were different than they are. Give yourself full permission to feel whatever feelings are there and know that you are not stuck in this place of discouragement.

One of the great secrets to change is that we must first accept where we are. What we resist persists, so you can start by acknowledging that you are where you are…and it may not be as bad as you think it is.

I’d like you to imagine what your life and relationships would be like if you were living a life you truly love, with all the love you desire in your life. How would you spend your days and nights? How would you feel each morning when you woke up?

Would you feel alive, awake, joyful and passionate about your life? How can you bring this feeling into your life today? Make an agreement with yourself to do things you enjoy, with people who inspire you, and to take time each day to notice what you appreciate about your life.

How would you feel about your body if you loved it just the way it is? What if you could look at your body without judgment, and accept and appreciate this wonderful physical body that has carried you on your journey, and allows you to live, move and experience life? How would you treat yourself differently? Make an agreement to treat your body with love and compassion, and to take excellent care of yourself.

Take a look at your job. What can you find to appreciate here? How can you enjoy your workday more? Do you feel like you are living your purpose, making the contribution you want to make and getting the appreciation and compensation you desire? Would you like to be living your life with true purpose and passion? I’d like to support you in making that a reality!

You crave love in your life, and how are you attracting the love you desire? How are you showing up in the world? Are you open and ready to give and receive love? Are you clear about what is essential for you in a relationship? Are you taking steps to bring you closer to the love you want? Do you need some help?

I’d like to support you in creating a life you truly love with the love of your life, living your purpose and fully loving yourself too. Please contact me for a complimentary LovePath consultation, check out my website www.MyTrueLovePath.com and join me for an upcoming live event or teleclass. I will have a booth and lead a presentation at the upcoming Marin Family Fair at the YMCA in San Rafael on September 18th , 10am-2pm. I look forward to seeing you there and talking with you very soon!

Much love and joy to you,
Dr. Wendy

Wendy Lyon, PhD Psychology
Master Certified Relationship and Life Coach
Workshop, Course and Retreat Facilitator

(415) 342-1300
DrWendy@InJoyLife.com
www.MyTrueLovePath.com
www.InJoyLife.com

Dear Dr. Wendy,

All the men I’ve met in recent years seem to be too damaged for a relationship. Maybe I can learn something new and start attracting different people if I talk with you or take one of your workshops. What are my options?

Ready for a change,
Melinda in Mill Valley
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Dear Melinda,

Congratulations for taking a step in the right direction on your path to true love! This month I am offering complimentary True Love Path consultations to seven people and still have a couple slots available. Please call me before June 15th to schedule your session.

During your complimentary session, you will:

Create a sense of clarity about the romantic relationship you really want to have

Find out the essential building blocks for having the relationship of your dreams

Discover the #1 thing stopping you from having the love you want

Identify the most powerful actions that will move you toward the life and relationship you desire

Know EXACTLY what to do next to create a life you love with the love of your life!

I look forward to hearing from you if you are ready to start or continue on your path to transforming your life and creating loving relationships.

I also invite you to join us for an upcoming free teleclass:
How to Avoid Detours and Roadblocks and stay on the Path to True Love!
Interactive Complimentary Teleclass
Wednesday June 16th 5:30-7:00pm Pacific Time.
RSVP with subject: True Love 6/16 class. DrWendy@InJoyLife.com Please include your first name and phone number in text.

Meanwhile, check out my new website www.MyTrueLovePath.com and sign up for the True Love Test. I think you will find it very helpful.

The first question I pose in my new True Love Test is:

Have you overcome any fears and doubts that hold you back from love?

These fears and doubts are often our greatest obstacles to love and can lead to detours in the wrong direction or even stop you in your tracks.

So, what are some possible fears and doubts that can get in the way?

Here are some common doubts and fears that I hear:

Dating is a waste of time. I’ll never meet anyone I like.
Even if I do meet someone I like, they won’t like me, so why bother?
How can anyone love me the way I am? I can’t even love me the way I am. I need to be different to be lovable.

Do any of these sound familiar? What if dating wasn’t a waste of time because you were approaching it consciously and having fun in the process? What if you were discerning about who you dated and believed you could meet someone who was a great match for you? What if you knew you were lovable and desirable just the way you are? How might your life be different?
Come join us and find out more about how to avoid detours and roadblocks and stay on your path to true love!

Register for the free teleclass June 16th by RSVP with subject: True Love 6/16 class. DrWendy@InJoyLife.com Please include your first name and phone number in text.

The second question in my True Love Test is:
Do you know how to avoid repeating damaging patterns?

Perhaps you’ve felt controlled and smothered in past relationships with family members and partners. Maybe you’ve concluded that:
Relationships are dangerous - you can be controlled and smothered…it’s better to be alone!

Perhaps you’ve felt like no one was there for you when you needed love and support, or maybe a parent or partner disappeared from your life when you wanted them with you. Maybe you concluded:
Relationships are painful - you can be abandoned…so it’s better not to get too close, and if you do get involved, make sure you get out before they leave you!

Maybe one of these patterns feels familiar to you, or you may have another painful pattern that has repeated itself in your life. Would you like to learn how to identify and eliminate these damaging patterns? What if you knew you were in control of your own life, you could make wise choices and allow yourself to fully love and be loved? How might your life and relationships be different?
Come join us and find out more about how to avoid detours and roadblocks and stay on your path to true love!

True Love Path: How to Avoid Detours and Roadblocks!
Interactive Complimentary Teleclass
Wednesday June 16th 5:30-7:00pm Pacific Time.
RSVP with subject: True Love 6/16 class. DrWendy@InJoyLife.com Please include your first name and phone number in text.

The next True Love Path: Relationship Success for Singles Course starts Wednesday, June 23rd.
We’ll meet via telephone using interactive conferencing. All sessions will be recorded. We’ll meet for 12 Wednesdays (no meeting July 14th). The 142 page workbook will be included. I am offering a very low early bird price of $495 for this whole package. Space is limited so please contact me right away if you’re interested. (DrWendy@inJoyLife.com or 415-342-1300. See www.MyTrueLovePath.com for more information)

You are Guaranteed to:
Clarify your values, vision and essential relationship requirements.
Uncover and release blocks and patterns that have stopped you.
Develop a clear plan for creating the life and relationship you desire.
Acquire a support team to assist you in finding the love of your life!

Here is a recent testimonial: “By the time I began working with Wendy, I had been divorced for 8 years and had been in 2 dysfunctional and unfulfilling relationships. I had a vague idea of what I desired in a healthy, intimate relationship, but none of the real specifics of what that felt or looked like. By the time I completed Wendy’s Life Partner Quest Class, I had a much more detailed and joyful idea about how I was going to attract the relationship of my dreams. Specifically, I learned more about my personal traits and desires, i.e. who I am, what worked and did not work in past relationships, and what my needs and desires are for a real life partnership. Through vision boards, readings, discussions, writing exercises and more, Wendy skillfully and joyfully guided our group closer to realizing true love. I met the man of my dreams last year and he fits my visions like a glove! I shared my vision statement out loud with him soon after we met and we were in awe (and continue to be) at how accurately he fits my dream and needs. This stuff really works! Thank You, Wendy.” Mary C., Mill Valley, CA

I look forward to helping you create a life you love with the love you want!

Much love and joy,
Dr. Wendy

Wendy Lyon, Ph.D., Psychology
Master Certified Relationship and Life Coach
Workshop, Course and Retreat Facilitator

(415) 342-1300
DrWendy@InJoyLife.com
www.MyTrueLovePath.com
www.InJoyLife.com

Dear Dr. Wendy,
I met a guy who I thought was great in so many ways. We had a lot of fun going out together for about six months. I finally told him I wanted to know where this was going because I’d really like to be in a relationship that’s heading for marriage. Now he doesn’t even want to see me anymore! What can I do?
Thanks,
Disappointed Debbie in San Francisco
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Dear Debbie,
I’m sorry to hear that things didn’t go well with the guy you were dating. You fell into a very common dating trap – the compatibility trap. This happens when you meet someone and have a lot of fun together and then assume that a long term committed relationship will work…but it doesn’t! Why didn’t it work? Because something… or many things that are essential to you were missing. What if you could have discovered this earlier? It’s important to be clear about where you are in your life. If you just want to have fun and know you aren’t ready for a committed relationship, be honest with yourself and others. If you want a long term committed partnership (like you clearly do), yes you want to be with someone you can have fun with and there are many other requirements that need to be met too.

For you, it sounds like one of those requirements is a shared desire for a committed relationship and marriage. In the future, don’t keep your agenda a secret – if you are sure you want to be married, let the men you date know that you are only interested in dating others who also want marriage. Sure, some may run but those aren’t the ones who are matches for you (as you’ve learned). It’s better to find this out in the first week than 6 months later… You owe it to yourself to know what your relationship requirements are and you owe it to yourself NOT to get involved with someone who doesn’t meet them.

Another thing you can do is call me now and schedule a complimentary consultation. This is your opportunity to identify what you really want, to understand what has been blocking you, and to start taking action toward the love and life you desire.

If you would like very effective, low cost support to make sure you never again experience the pain of another dating trap or another relationship that goes nowhere, sign up for my upcoming telecourse.

In this 12 week interactive telecourse you are guaranteed to:
• Clarify your values, vision and essential relationship requirements.
• Uncover and release blocks and patterns that have stopped you.
• Let go of habits, things and people that don’t support and inspire you.
• Learn to believe in yourself and your vision for a loving partnership.
• Develop an effective plan for creating a life you love with the love of your life!
• Get the support you need to make your dreams come true!

The telecourse includes:
* 18 hours of interactive course time
* Individual coaching session
* Comprehensive 142 page workbook
* E-mail feedback as needed
* All sessions recorded and available

We’ll meet for 12 consecutive Wednesdays via interactive tele-conference at 5:30pm-7:00pm February 10th- April 28th (all calls will be recorded).

Contact me right away to receive the very low early bird price of $495 for this whole package ($795+ value). Space is very limited so contact me ASAP to get in at this price.

Here is a recent comment from a past course participant: “By the time I began working with Wendy, I had been divorced for 8 years and had been in 2 dysfunctional and unfulfilling relationships. I had a vague idea of what I desired in a healthy, intimate relationship, but none of the real specifics of what that felt or looked like. By the time I completed Wendy’s Relationship Success for Singles Class, I had a much more detailed and joyful idea about how I was going to attract the relationship of my dreams. Specifically, I learned more about my personal traits and desires, i.e. who I am, what worked and did not work in past relationships, and what my needs and desires are for a real life partnership. Through vision boards, readings, discussions, writing exercises and more, Wendy skillfully and joyfully guided our group closer to realizing true love. I met the man of my dreams last year and he fits my visions like a glove! I shared my vision statement out loud wit! h him soon after we met and we were in awe (and continue to be) at how accurately he fits my dream and needs. This stuff really works! Thank You, Wendy.” Mary C., Mill Valley, CA

Individual and couples coaching are also available. If you have never received a complimentary consultation, please call me to schedule yours!

I look forward to hearing from you!

Much love to you,
Dr. Wendy

Wendy Lyon, Ph.D., Psychology
Master Certified Relationship and Life Coach
Workshop, Course and Retreat Facilitator
(415) 342-1300
DrWendy@InJoyLife.com
www.InJoyLife.com

Dear Dr. Wendy,
I’m tired of going out with guys who aren’t really interested in a serious relationship. But I’m worried that all the good guys are already taken. I want to do things differently this year. What can I do?

Helen in Petaluma
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Dear Hopeful Helen,

You’re off to a positive start to 2010! The good news is there are still plenty of good guys out there. I’d like to make sure that this year you do learn how to do things differently. I hope you can join us for the teleclass on Wednesday that will address your concerns and give you a lot of helpful information about how to avoid dangerous dating traps and how to date consciously. This is the best thing you can do to help you create the relationship of your dreams. I look forward to having you on the call! And keep reading for some insight into three common dating traps…

No More Dangerous Dating Traps for you! 2010 is your year for love!

Have you ever thought that there just aren’t enough good men or women out there, and you might as well settle for what you can get? Here’s what I’ve seen happen to those who settle: They wish their partners were different and they spend a lot of time trying to get their partners to change. How well does that work? It doesn’t! And how do the partners who are the target of these change projects feel? Like something is wrong with them and they aren’t good enough just the way they are. How likely are these “settlers” to be happy? Not very! What’s the solution? Don’t settle - join us for the upcoming complimentary teleclass:

Have you ever tried to make yourself appear more glamorous or mysterious in an effort to attract someone? What happens when people discover the real you? Both you and they are likely to be disappointed because you aren’t the person you pretend to be. How can you avoid this heartache? Show up as your authentic self and join us for the upcoming complimentary teleclass:

Have you ever become an instant couple with someone you’ve just met and then wondered why your relationship wasn’t working? Why don’t these instant couplings usually work? Most instant couples haven’t taken the time to see if they share similar values and life goals, and to see if they are truly compatible in all the ways that matter to both of them. How can you avoid the pain of another “mini marriage” that goes nowhere? Take the time to clarify your values, vision and relationship requirements and if you are looking for a partner, make sure you only get involved with someone who is truly a match. To learn more, join us for the upcoming complimentary teleclass: http://myaccount.maestroconference.com/conference/register/UGFP114RRC8II5FN

These are just a few of the common dating traps most of us have fallen into.
Would you like help to make sure you never again fall into another risky dating trap? Would you like to learn how to be conscious and deliberate about dating? Are you ready to create the relationship of your dreams?

Please join us for a complimentary interactive teleclass.
No More Dating Traps! Learn How to Avoid Ten Dangerous Dating Traps and Learn the Ten Principles of Conscious Dating with Relationship and Dating Expert Dr. Wendy Lyon
Register Here for Free Interactive Teleclass:

http://myaccount.maestroconference.com/conference/register/UGFP114RRC8II5FN

Wednesday, January 13th 5:30pm-7:00pm Pacific Time

This is an introduction to both the upcoming in-person group and telecourse. New groups will be starting the first week of February. Please contact me right away if you have questions or would like more information on upcoming teleclasses or courses: DrWendy@InJoyLife.com or 415-342-1300. See

Register here for NO MORE DATING TRAPS! Free interactive teleclass:http://myaccount.maestroconference.com/conference/register/UGFP114RRC8II5FN